Irony of fate: A pot, boil it...
How nice it is to be the mistress of a big house! But it's a shame when those for whom you're trying take your concern for granted. Olga S. found it difficult to live in her husband's house...
When my husband and I met, we were twenty-five years old. We ended up in the same company, and I immediately noticed him. On the very first evening, it turned out that we were much the same – we had the same hobbies, culinary preferences, and even favorite colors.
I'll be the hostess!
When Kolya and I got married, we started living with my parents. They always dreamed of a son and welcomed my husband with open arms. The family relations were wonderful, and our friends even joked about Nikolai that he refuted all the jokes about his son-in-law and mother-in-law. But unfortunately, the idyll did not last long. A year after the wedding, Kolya began to talk that our apartment was cramped and that it would be nice for us to move into his house. On the one hand, it was a tempting offer. Nikolai's house is one of the largest and most beautiful in our village. But there was one "but". More precisely, two – Kolya's father and his brother, who lived there and, of course, were not going anywhere. I resisted for another six months, but somehow my husband told me that I was holding on to my mom's skirt. I was afraid that my mom and husband would turn into the typical mother-in-law and son-in-law from jokes, and agreed to move. And what, I consoled myself, I'll be the hostess!
The hut of the three bears
How does the mistress of a large house, inhabited by three adult men, live? Personally, I feel more like a servant. Of course, Kolya helps me, but he can't take on at least half of all the worries about the house. Firstly, he works a lot, and secondly, he just doesn't understand some things. His mother, who died before we met, was, they say, a very good housewife. And that's why her sons and her husband seem to think that some things are happening as if by magic. Although I already think that only a fairy from a fairy tale can keep the house in order, and even cook breakfast every morning, and dinner and lunch for tomorrow in the evening, and at the same time have fun and hum.
Where is the money?
Another important point is the products and the money for them. In his former life, his father-in-law gave his wife a salary or part of it, and there was food in the house. Of course, he doesn't pay me a salary, but since there is a hostess in the house, it means that the products must appear somehow. As a result, my husband and I not only can't save anything, but sometimes we don't have enough for the most necessary things – almost all our money is spent on groceries. Her husband's brother is a kind–hearted man, he helps Kolya in everything and always, as soon as the need arises. But he doesn't give money for farming either, he's just terrible at home – he won't rinse the cups after himself! Recently, Kolya started talking about having a baby, but I can't imagine how a pregnant woman will cope with the household. But my husband doesn't want to leave his house...
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Natalia Rymar, Editor
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